Respecting others online
Respect is what holds your relationships together. Learn different ways to be respectful and how to handle situations when someone isn't respectful toward you.
If you are 4-18 years old, this section is for you.
Why is respect so important?
When someone else respects you, it helps you to feel safe and allows you to express yourself.
Being respected by important people in our lives as we grow up teaches us how to be respectful toward others. When you respect someone, you are accepting who they are even when they're different from you or you don't agree with them. It helps build a feeling of trust, safety, and well-being.
What does respect look like?
How can you know if someone is respecting you and you are respecting others?
You feel safe being around each other
You don't control each other's choices
You feel comfortable expressing yourself around each other
You both talk openly about what you want and need
You listen to each other when you're arguing -- you are patient with them
You give each other space
You don't yell over each other
You can admit when you make a mistake
How to improve your relationships
Sometimes, you may feel disrespected by other people, including our family and friends. It is not always possible to make someone respect you, but here are some things you can try:
Be respectful to them -- lead by example and show them what respect looks like
Tell the person how you are feeling and put yourself in their shoes
If someone can't be respectful toward you and you feel unsafe, it is okay to end your friendship
It is best to surround yourself with people who make you feel safe
If you are being disrespected, talk to someone you trust (like a parent or a counselor)
Don't always discount someone immediately -- give them a chance to change their behavior toward you
You have to respect yourself, too!
It is important to respect yourself just as you respect others.
Remember that you are valued and YOU matter.
The way you feel is just as important as how someone else feels,
Ending a relationship that makes you feel unsafe and disrespected is a way of respecting yourself.